CEO in T-Shirt
Apr 23rd, 2014 by Xarah

CEO and founder of FGXpress Ron Williams is interviewed by Willi Morant.

Las Vegas 2014 – CEO Ron Williams talks about what you should know about Fgxpress and why it different to what you know about normal Network Marketing Companys. Hear about the private side of life and Businesslife from Ron Williams and why singing can be so effectful. Do you want know what a CEO really does? Watch this Business Network Quickie and be surprised.

I like it when a founder walks around in a T-Shirt, makes them more real for me.

And I like it that this business is also for German speakers. Because we have a system in place that is in German and English. Finally! Something I can share with my German friends.

Want to find out more about this company and its products?

The Mailbox Business.

Here to help you succeed,

Having fun while building a business. Work from home. Xarah Dax

Having fun while building a business

Worst Month Ever!
Apr 11th, 2014 by Xarah

I’m grateful that March is over. It was the worst month I have ever experience.

I was close to a nervous break down several times. I don’t know what prevented it to happen. Maybe all lthe personal development I’ve emerged myself in lately? Anyway, here’s the short video, and why at the same time it was also a good month:

This is my vehicle that provide me that unexpected income

Put in your best email address, and watch the video. Then click on the join button and start your own “surprise” income business :-)

Word of mouth Ok, so it’s not that easy LOL after joining you still have to “tell” others. or actual marketing. You will learn that inside the membership site which is only $25/month. No brainer, right?

Anyway, here’s the direct link to join. It’s easy to cancel if you don’t like it. That’s what I thought. After all, it’s only 25 bucks. I have paid more on other stuff, and certainly wasted more in March due to that stupid decision and the snake tail that followed that. Good thing though I have this asset in place, eh?

To your success.

xarah dax

She Lost Her Dream
Mar 28th, 2014 by Xarah

How she lost her dream and found it again

She got into this industry because she was sold on the idea of time freedom.

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The idea to litterly own her own time was intoxicating and at the beginning made her loose sleep.

So she went to work.

Learned everything about the products, the company, the marketing plan and the industry and how to do this business. And she did.

She brought new people into her business all the time. She even had people “duplicating” and also bring in new people. She loved it. She could help so many people.


…everybody leaned on her for the training and coaching of their new people.

She’d do weekly trainings, she’d do personal calls and 3-way calls, she’d do coaching of people several levels deep.

She learned a lot that way.

And of course she was also flattered because everybody came to her with questions. Who wouldn’t be?

One day though she realized she was selling the dream and living the nightmare.

And all of a sudden she didn’t want to do that to others.

It gotten hard to talk about the business, the dream, the lifestyle knowing she didn’t really live it even though the income was nice and more than she had made in her last job. Yet…

She still loved the products, the company, and the people she had met. With some she had made great friends.

One day she sat down and asked herself the hard question: where is the time-freedom, that one ‘thing’ that got  her interested in the first place? Where was it? More over where did it go? Thinking hard about her situation it seemed she had had more time at her hands when she had a job.

She did have a nice income but she knew if she took a break, find herself, started doing all the things she had dreamed and imagined about, her team would fade away and so would her income. And she’d have to start from scratch. That thought alone scared her, made her shiver.

Was it worth it though? The many evenings spent on the phone and on webinars with her team and their team. The many weekends doing coaching and training calls.

She was devasted.

What to do? Keep on this route and eventually burn out? Quit and find a job?

Both options didn’t really feel like an option to her. Yet she couldn’t see a third one.

Right when she was at this cross road, a new path opened up in front of her eyes.

It was Empower Network.

Because it was only $25 to get “inside” and have a closer look her credit card was out of her wallet without much thought.

She kept thinking: is this the solution? I want to have fun again. I want my time back. I want my life back. I want my team to have their life back. I want to empower my people to do and have the what ever they desire.

She explored the membership site and started to feel excited again. She felt her face wrinkle into a smile, her heart beat faster. And her mind came up with wonderful pictures. She suddenly saw herself with her team celebrating.

After loggin in she found more than she had anticpated. Fear that she might have waste $25 despeared. She could hear a gentle “poof”.

She exhaled a breath she didn’t know she’d been holding.

And started to explore the site. Tested the blogging platform. Generally clicked on everything. She watched the sales videos of the other products and bought one after the other.

Feeling more and more excited.

She then got a friendly welcome email from the person she had joined and responded. She didn’t even know this person nor did she expect an email or a call.

They had a lovely chat. When she told her story about her lost dreams and lost time freedom she found gentle understanding on the other end of the line.

What a relief! Because she had tried to talk to her sponsor of her other business about her issues but since he had quit, and his sponsor had quit… she’d have to talk to one of the big leaders and she remembered how suddenly she felt so small with her little problems and that it must be her fault, she must be doing something wrong.

What a yucky feeling that was.

All of a sudden though finding understanding was liberating. After she hung up she took a deep breath, it was like she had been holding her breath for months.

She suddenly found herself in Facebook groups and among other people who either had gone through similar trials or had gotten lucky and found Empower Network at the very beginning.

She felt like she came home.

She went and bought all the products, what the Empower Network community calls ‘ALL IN’.

Being celebrated to go ‘ALL IN’ was certainly an experience. Nobody  has congratulated her before to buying products.

Again, she went to work.

After only a few of the training modules she knew she had found the right vehicle to plug her team in. She wanted to give her team what she had found.

  • A vehicle to promote their business.
  • A vehicle to earn more income and have another income stream.
  • A training website where even a total ‘newbie’ could get all the training they needed and more.
  • And a community of like minded people.

Of course not everybody joined her. But most did. You know how it is. Some people want to get ahead. Some people want to be more, have more and do more.

There was enough training material on selling, marketing, closing, driving traffic and even personal development for everybody no matter where they were at. She closed her own training channel and told everybody to come over to Empower Network.

Her people loved it because they could go through the material and implement what they learned on their own time schedule. Especially her international team members loved it. Finally no more getting up a 2 or 3 am.

All of a sudden, from one day to the other she finally had what she had always wanted!

She owned her own time.

With what she learned in the different marketing modules she put to use to help more people, and she grew her first business and her Empower Network business.

Now, she was working 14 hours a week instead of 14 hours a day.

Do you know somebody like her?

She loves what she does.

She has her life back.

She helps much more people.

Would you like to do the same?

Click here.
Put in your best email address.
Watch the video.

And I’ll send you a friendly welcome email. I might even call you ;-)

Welcome to the Empower Network Team!

We empower people.
We are the Empower Network.

Join here

I’ll see you inside.

~ Xarah JOY Dax ~

Having fun while building a business. Work from home. Xarah Dax

Having fun while building a business

~ The world is yours… go get it.~

3-Way Calls
Mar 1st, 2014 by Xarah

Do 3-Way Calls still work?

Yes, they do, and also, they don’t if you do them for a while. I’ll tell you why in a minute. I also show you a way out of the phone trap when you are ready.


3-Way Calls Work

It was late night. He was in the basement with his best friend, playing video games when the phone rang.

It turned out to be a team member who had gotten his grandmother to be on the call with him, another of the countless 3-way calls he was doing day in and day out.

He did his usual thing and grandmother joined.

He hung up and his friend turned to him saying: Dude, I quit.

See, his friend had also joined his business. And now, after he heard him close successfully someone, actually witnessing success he decided to quit!


Why 3-Way Calls Don’t Work

Because he had joined the business because he believed eventually he would get more than money, that he would get more time, time freedom. So he could play video games all day or what ever his heart desired.

He simply could not see himself, being on the phone all day and as we all just witnessed night.

He hadn’t even started yet but he knew he certainly didn’t want to be on the phone when his team members “needed” him.

Our friend suddenly woke up.

See, he’s been doing these 3-way calls which are rather genious and work rather well for quit a while now, and closing a lot of people for his team and himself.

What happened was his team members, growing daily, used his skills of talking and closing instead of learning it themselves.

Well, it was easier and faster. Right. We all would do the same.

But he was on the phone 24/7.

All the while earning about $5000 per month.

That’s not a lot of money for not having time freedom anymore.

Can you relate?

3-Way Calls Kill Time Freedom

It’s been 5-6 years now that I was introduced to 3-way calls for the first time.

The concept of having your prospects talk to a leader or at least seamingly a leader and thus being more open to listen then when you – especially when new – tell them about the business and/or products.

I totally digged the concept. There was only one slight problem.

The 3 Way Call Challenge

My challenge was and still is: I’m in Europe. My sponsor was in the states. By the way, I did not join through a 3-way call.

2 things held me back:

1) Can I really call my sponsor any time of the day just because I happen to have an interested person on the phone – who incidentally also spoke English? What will I do with an interested person if they did not speak English or were shy to speak English?

2) Do I really want to be available myself for a phone call all the time just because a team member of mine had an interested person on the line? Will I be able to do what my sponsor or upline can do so well?

It certainly was a challenge but I managed to find time slots that were good for all 3 of us and had my sponsor (or was it his upline?) do a 3-way call. Several times even.

Did my prospects join? No.

Of course, you say, you need more than a couple of such phone calls. More prospects. Naturally.

But it was such a hassle to find a time for all 3 parties… more over I started more and more to think about having to do 3-way calls for my team and I shuddered.

I started looking for other ways to build the business.

No More 3-Way Calls

When I heard Dave’s story which I told you above I could totally relate and I knew this could have been me. And I was grateful I didn’t have to go through that.

By the way, after his friend quit, he threw away his phone. He stopped doing 3-way calls from one day to the other. And so did his whole team.

Yet, amazingly enough, his group grew.

Wonder if everybody got freed up and thus the team grew?

What about you? Do you do 3-way calls? Or did you find this page because you wanted to learn more about 3-way calls? Are you disappointed now?

Are you doing 3-way calls and are sick and tired of it because you realize yourself that you don’t own your time anymore?

I mean, we got into this industry because we don’t want to be 9to5ers. We had so many plans and ideas what to do we ourselves and our time… can you still see your dreams?

What happened? Were did our time freedom go?

We have to get it back!

How to get out of the 3-way call trap

The way to get out of the 3-way call trap, or the weekly (I hope not daily) coaching calls is to have a system in place.

A system where you can plug your team members in. Where they can learn about how to prospect, how to market, how to close, on their terms, in their time frame while you are at the beach or climbing mountains.

This is vitally important for new people. How can they coach their new people? Only by relying on you. And whoosh there goes your freedom.

Having a system, with education in place (and by the way an awesome pay plan) they can go out there, tell their friends (if they want to) or simply learn to utilize the internet to build their business gain back their own time and money freedom.

They can use this system to earn extra money and learn how to promote their other business without you having to hold their hands all the time.

Can I hear a sounding “Win-Win” shout?

Because I know by now you are pretty excited by the view of getting your time back and only have to do calls, webinars or hangouts when you want, I’d like to invite you to click this link, watch the video and just click the join button.

Next tell your team. They are save here. I’m sure they will love the idea to get their time freedom back, leave the phone trap and be able to enjoy their life more.

As I said, that’s why we all got into this industry, didn’t we?

Now you know that 3-way calls work and how. And also why 3-way calls don’t work eventually. More over, now you know there is a way out of the 3-way trap.


After you join, don’t be surprised though if I call you :-) I don’t have to but I’d like to get to know you better.

Leave the 3-way call trap here.
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Our motto: Drop the phone and pick up the check

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Xarah Dax


Why Invest in Yourself
Feb 15th, 2014 by Xarah

Why Invest in Yourself

Week 4 of the “Create Lifestyle Freedom” video series.

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Why A Job Will Not Create Lifestyle Freedom
Feb 13th, 2014 by Xarah

Why A Job Will Not Create Lifestyle Freedom

A job does not create lifestyle freedom because you exchange time for money. Everybody, employed or self employed or have a brick and mortar business, they all need a passive/residual income.
How I create lifestyle freedom and how to contact me:

This is a video of the “Create Lifestyle Freedom” series.

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Feb 12th, 2014 by Xarah

Last Friday me and 3 Fearless women over 50 went to the movies. In the afternoon :-)

We went to see FROZEN.

I can totally recommend it to young and old.

Just the 4 of us where in the movie theater and kind of had a private show. That’s what you get
when you can go to the movies in the afternoon when everybody else is at the office :-))

In the break we chatted about how special Disney movies are. And that’s where the picture above was shot.

Frozen only for kids?

Even if it’s a kid’s movie still grown-ups can get something out of it.

Yes, it could just be entertainment, just a diversion for a couple of hours from sorrows. Or You can really get
something out of it.

For instance, my Facebook friend Katherine Fugate (a writer for the Xena TV show) posted this on her wall:

Is it Disney Blasphemy to see Elsa’s storyline from Frozen as a coming out storyline? Something she is born with,
has to keep hidden, until finally, in adulthood, she let’s it go – breaks free and is proud of who she is?

We found the song “let it go” powerful too. On the way back into the city one of the women said something about fear.
And I told her to let it go, to let her fear go because it freezes your heart. Let it go and let love heal everything
(or something in this sense).

Here are the lyrics to “Let It Go”

The snow glows white on the mountain tonight,
not a footprint to be seen.
A kingdom of isolation and it looks like I’m the queen.
The wind is howling like this swirling storm inside.
Couldn’t keep it in, Heaven knows I tried.
Don’t let them in, don’t let them see.
Be the good girl you always have to be.
Conceal, don’t feel, don’t let them know.
Well, now they know!
Let it go, let it go!
Can’t hold it back anymore.
Let it go, let it go!
Turn away and slam the door.
I don’t care what they’re going to say.
Let the storm rage on.
The cold never bothered me anyway.
It’s funny how some distance,
makes everything seem small.
And the fears that once controlled me,
can’t get to me at all
It’s time to see what I can do,
to test the limits and break through.
No right, no wrong, no rules for me.
I’m free!
Let it go, let it go.
I am one with the wind and sky.
Let it go, let it go.
You’ll never see me cry.
Here I stand, and here I’ll stay.
Let the storm rage on.
My power flurries through the air into the ground.
My soul is spiraling in frozen fractals all around
And one thought crystallizes like an icy blast
I’m never going back; the past is in the past!
Let it go, let it go.
And I’ll rise like the break of dawn.
Let it go, let it go
That perfect girl is gone
Here I stand, in the light of day.
Let the storm rage on!
The cold never bothered me anyway.

Yes, I think it could be a coming-out story/song.

The co-songwriter Kristen Anderson-Lopez said: “Who doesn’t have some kind of shame or secret that holds them back?”
Point is, just about anyone can relate in some way.

Our foursome of fearless women over 50 ;-) decided every new member has to watch this movie because we started to
adapt some frozen language.

Oh, and Olaf! What a wonderful comic element. He’s just lovely!

Go watch it and if you can in 3D! I’ll certainly get the DVD when it’s available.

If you have seen it, would you like to share what you got out of the movie or how you liked it?

Let it go!


Don’t let go!

If you’ve been thinking about working from home, starting a home based business, or blogging about stuff
you’re passionate about and making money doing that, I invite you to partner with me.  I’ve been creating a
lifestyle income since 2011 working part time and I’ve aligned myself with a company and a team to help you
do the same.

Find Out More

Did you know you can generate sales without picking up the phone and calling people or chasing family and friends?

Watch this video… It’s how I do it.

And you can too.

To Your Life Style Dream my friend!

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Xarah Dax


Your Comfort Zone, Is Your Failure Zone
Feb 11th, 2014 by Xarah

Your Comfort Zone, Is Your Failure Zone

Making videos scared me but now it gets easier though still not totally comfortable. But it’s also kinda fun out there in the maze, you know?

What’s your cheese? What’s your storage room? And what’s your maze? Hope this annology helps you figure it out and help you move out of your comfort zone because it’s your failure zone.

“Who moved my cheese” by Spencer Johnson (not Ken Blanchard as I say in the video).
Create Lifestyle Freedom Videos Series Week 3

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The Importance of Clarity in Your Reason Why
Feb 10th, 2014 by Xarah

The Importance of Clarity in Your Reason Why

To have more clarity in your reason why is not only important in business but also in daily life as I recently found out.

I’m part of a project group called “Create Lifestyle Freedom” and we create videos to help others… you… to create your own lifestyle freedom.

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Xarah Dax

The Importance of the right mindset
Feb 9th, 2014 by Xarah

The Importance of the Right Mindset

Being part of a group of Lifestyle Freedom creator I create 1-2 new videos every week.

They are short and on topic. Here’s another one:

We can have a positive mindset for one thing and yet a negative for another thing.

It’s constant being aware of what kind of mindset we are in. I hope it’ll get easier with time ;-)

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